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Mi, 01.08.2018 16:34
» so much happened in the first half of 2018. I learned a lot. Also about myself. Still a lot of fear and jealousy. It does not go away so fast. Maybe never, but you start learning how it affects you and how you deal with it, so it does not affect others too. I gained a lot of experience and got convinced to believe a lot more in myself. I appreciate the people around me. Though still some are not important to me. And probably will never be. Because they do not fit neither in my world nor in my heart. I can proudly say I am proud for what I have reached. And for the holiday we 2 spent. It was awesome. But after a good time, though I was ill, it seems that somethings hits back double or triple. Now our time together is rare. A lot of challenges are arriving. And my head is turning and I am only thinking, like I always do. I am looking for solutions, I can also live with. He can, just like that. But I am not willing to take it as it comes. I take changes but not bigger ones. Not ones that affect my life in a way I am not accepting. I am a fighter. And if something happens to me or my loved ones I become a tiger. I will not give up, looking for solutions. And I am looking forward to a weekend in our new hometown. Just chilling and relaxing without a dark thought of future in mind. Now I am a bit worrying about my future plans, but I will see. Still keeping to it. And keeping it to myself. Hope the second half of the year will also be good. But it will be as long as i believe in it. Somehow afraid of autumn.. in summer less bad thoughts appear. But still: belief is all. «
» 2018 «
Do, 04.01.2018 11:34
» hello 2018,
hello sad Janury, that always makes me doubt, think, plan ... a lot of pressure you brought with you.
Just a few words:
thank you 2017, you ended wonderful and 2018 you started awesome.
Some small wishes for myself, on which I should try working on.
It is not important what you achieve in life. It is about who you are, how you spent your life, that you loved and made life also better for the people around you.
Ignore anger, negativity and the behaviour of some people. Smile at yourself in the mirror. Make others laugh. Love. Use the time you have got. Don't worry too much. Change a NO to a YES. Make excursions. Travel. Meet people. Tell them how much you care for them. Trust yourself. Among work and studying do not forget to live. These moments are much more important. You grow from the ones at work, but you live from the ones in your freetime. These are the memories you can build on, you can think of in difficult times.
Oh how beautiful it is snowing outside.
Be thankful. For the people. For your life. For the time. That you are healthy. Nothing else matters that much.
Make dreams come true. See the positive. And love yourself. «
» experience «
Mo, 18.12.2017 13:45
» 13 days in 2017 left. A chance to leave some things behind and don't turn around and a chance to start new things, work on them, changes. Always afraid of these changes. But some need to be done, it doesn't matter how hard they seem at the beginning. When you look back you sometimes may think: "What? I was afraid of that? Never! But it was easier..." A lot changed. Positive and negative. Up's & Down's. Learning myself better, though I often don't understand myself. Still a lot of fear, doing something without him, counting days and nights, forgetting everything else. My important music that always helps me. My dancing. My walking or running. The powerful forests and the necessarity of silence sometimes. The importance of family. I want to appreciate time more. We don't know how much is left for us. My caring boyfriend. He nearly daily conjures a smile in my face. He spoils me and treats me well. Rarely criticizes. Not so me. I am too honest often not thinking what could be the reaction to my action. Ruined his birthday out of ignorance. I am sorry for that. He will always remember it. But I try to make other days better instead, as I cannot change the past. I met his family again after 1 year where I reached not seeing them. They visited us in July. But after one day in our (little) flat (and I am not used to so many people and such little space) I didn't like it anymore. I am used to more freedom. Same when visiting them and when his sister is there too. Hiding in the room (but not only) but the screaming, the noise of the little boy always talking to MY boyfriend (am I jealous cause of a little kid??). A walk with only us two livened the situation up but no moment there was really good. I don't feel well there. How will it be tomorrow in one week? I try not to worry too much and to be not too much afraid of it..
Now to successful experiences also in this term. I am surprised of what I am able to. What I am able to learn and do. And still this term I try to divide better between "work" and "freetime" and I think it improved a bit. But I am not sure yet. 3 weeks holidays and 4 weeks of the term left .. Gosh time is running!
Unspoken dreams and wishes. I have a lot of them. I cannot talk about because it seems embarassing, thinking of the future - imagining it. The most funny thing for me is, others like studying and think of what work or study can follow after finishing this one. My only thought is: finishing it, returning home and wanting a family. But first next summer maybe another task -> an animal to look after. Maybe it helps feeling less lonely in this big city.
At least I see mountains everywhere around, makes it feel a bit more like home. <3
Thanks year 2017, good & bad, but the best things: my family in the back, my home, the best boyfriend and successful achieved goals.
2018: I hope for more successful experiences and coming closer to my dream of complesion. «
» criticism «
Mo, 31.07.2017 10:06
» Anniversary ... what does that mean. What did change? I dunno.
A lot changed for bad and a lot for good. Still feeling good together. But also problems appear and vanish sometimes, but when they are vanished and ignored long enough they hit you. The worst thing about it is that it is all about me: my fears and my attitude. I urgent want to change my thinking, my thoughts and my attitude. Less hate and more of an “I don’t care” attitude. So much hate, anger and bad words. And afterwards I dunno where they come from?! From underneath…
A lot to deal with… distance from home. Though I know it is necessary, an important point in life. Maybe 1 ½ years left and there may be an end in sight. Always this counting, but I accept it as a part of my life. Counting how much time is left until an event. I need it for setting a timetable and setting goals. I like dealing and learning languages and also some projects, but now I am afraid what will await me. Will I be able to do it? Is it the right thing?
I want to finish it, I never leave anything unfinished, I have to be satisfied with the result and I can be glad about what I have already done. But I often forget it. He always says he is proud and he knew it will go well. Would only I be so secure… Distance from my family, it sometimes breaks my heart not being able to come there for a jump or being there for special events. He says I could, but somehow I feel like I am not able to do anything without him. That sometimes is missing. But like this weekend shows, it is nothing bad or sad. It does good to both of us. We both need it. Did I always act like that? I don’t know when I have turned to be so stubborn and totally not the way I want to be. I want to be full of joy, motivation, love. And less fears that catch me every time. Like nightmares and bad thoughts, that lead my life in another direction, it is like I want to turn right and I turn left. All those struggles … I am old enough. Too old for such problems. Or not?
In my opinion we often are too critical with ourselves, always seeing the bad things and never what is positive. Like I am ambitious, everything I want can functionate. Even if I may need more time than others, in the end only the result counts. How can I get the seriousness away? I should enjoy more and take life and challenges easy. How boring would life be without challenges! I should be kinder with the people I like and love. Appreciate them and show it. Appreciate the time I have and we have together. Now it is time to change my attitude and sort my priorities new. Now.
Today is anniversary. A good day to start new. Shut down the old program and open the very new one. I wish the program good luck. «
» black star «
Mo, 03.04.2017 13:01
» what if someone can't improve?
what if someone can't change?
what if someone attracts the bad and the black?
What if someone is afraid of so much, but not of one thing?
what if someone is courageous, but not in the right moments?
what if someone wants to talk, but can't find the words and voice in this moment?
what if someone plans to do something, but when the moment comes, all is gone?
what if someone wants to appreciate things, but immediately is not able to any more or forgets to?
what if time is too fast and always not enough?
what if you are stressing your future? making plans that will never come true?
what if you have lots of love to give, but keep it secret?
what if hatred and pain are stronger than love and trust?
what if you lose the fight?
what if your doubts take over control?
what if you prove a lot of things .. but it is never enough?
what if you are ashamed of so many things?
what if you have a wrong view of life?
what if it matters more how others live, instead of your own way of life?
what if your problems are so worse, you lose direction?
what if you problems take over control and you think others do not have any?
what if you are afraid of everything? of people getting to close?
what if you are pushing away people, instead of holding them?
what if you lose your laugh, and tend to be bad?
what if you do not understand yourself any more?
what if you feel lonely all the time?
what if somebody screams at you, and you lose your voice?
what if you only want to run away, escape it all?
how to gain trust - how to trust - when it has been broken a lot of times?
how to trust love, if so many do not understand love your way?
what if you feel lonely, inbetween a huge group of people?
what if you silently cry under the shower?
what if you want to change but fall back every time?
what if it feels safer in the hole than outside?
what if cold and black are your home?
what if you always expect the bad because of not getting disappointed?
never lose hope they said .. trust love they said .. but they are the first ones to blame you if something is not working the way it should. it is your fault they say, without knowing of any scream, any pain, any hurt, any punishment, any word said, any insider knowledge?
people talk a lot when the day is long .. but it can hurt for days!

trust yourself they said .. but what if you fooled yourself ? can your trust such a person? that changes its opinion in one minute. that feels heavy stones in the stomach, after a simple word? a word can change everything . expectations . hope . joy . it can disturb and devaste your dreams. destroy everything . like a war . something breaks in silence . you can't say a word due to the pain. but pretend it is nothing special. I do not care. I am on my own, and strong enough, and proud.

in the centre of it all .. «
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